So no speed dating connections, went out on a few dates but didn't feel any sparks.
So the guy that I still do like is in France,do I ring him and wish him a happy valentines day as a friend, or text him and tell him that I have always liked him more than a friend or just leave it.
Any advice?
Yes I did it, I went speed dating last week and I got 15 ticks out of 18, so I guess that I am marketable. I have already been asked out on three dates since then, one I turned down, definitely not my type, second one yet to happen and another one emailed today. Only bad thing is I can't remember him at all and really think can I be bothered with it all. No one stood out for me and there wasn't any particular guy/s that I connected with or thought I would love to see them again and continue a conversation.
So what do I do?
Yes new year and a new start, so while nothing is going to happen in the immediate future with the guy that I really like (see previous post), a group of workmates and I are going speed dating in a few weeks. Yes I have looked at online dating and have run a mile, it seems so primal to me, for lack of a better word. So I thought speed dating might be less intrusive and a more casual environment, but now the greatest fear may happen, what if no one ticks your box, ie what if no guy there thinks that I am worth a second date, the fear and rejection are starting to terrify me!
Has anyone been speed dating, what are your suggestions and tips and what did you think of the whole concept?
Well I have been in my new city for four years but have yet to make a really good friend who I can chat to and ramble on about my feelings, so its up to you dear blog reader to help me out with my life dilemmas. So lets start with the very popular category of men.
Lets see I have liked this guy (ex workmate) for nearly three years and at one time I was for sure he was going to ask me out (dropped the line that he was going to the pub on Friday night and then asked what I was doing, to which I hastily replied I was busy, to which he replied, starting to see why I need help?). Anyhoo he invited me out to his leaving drinks (he is off on a working holiday) two weeks ago, as I left he gave me a big hug and declared that he loved me and that I was one of his closest and most supportive friends (yes that very ugly F word). To which I quickly hugged him back and literally ran out of the place.
So what do I do, furgetaboutit, or do I send him a email telling him I have feelings for him, dear blog reader, what do I do???
Awaiting your kind advice.
Hopeless in Life.
PS - Here's a holiday tip - avoid the film 'The Holiday" with Cameron Diaz and Kate Winslet (how can I ever forgive you for this on Kate?), its a downright doozer, and whats with making Jack Black a love interest for Kate, what she can't have a hunk like Matthew McConaughy cause she's a normal size gal?
