Can a Brother Be a Pet?
My five year old considers his two year old brother to be his pet. While that
sounds funny, it's not really so funny when it's your life. Poor Ami gets
dragged around by his big brother all the time. Judah is constantly asking
where he is, taking Ami for "walks" and seeing what he can feed him next. I
think he subconsciously wants an animal that I'm not about to buy him, and he's
projecting his desire on his brother. Weird? Perhaps...but what is a mother to
do about it. I've tried not to laugh when I see Judah doing things that he
would do with a dog, but it's hard not to. The other day, I found them playing
fetch in the yard. Judah was throwing the ball and yelling at Ami to run after
it. Now, some people would think that I'm misinterpreting things and that this
is really called "catch". But, when Judah is purposefully asking Ami to
retrieve the ball, and to carry it back to him, I think it looks more like
fetch. I'm not ready to buy him a dog, but I'm also not quite sure how to wean
him from treating his younger brother like one! Fortunately, Ami seems to like
the attention, and I haven't yet found him licking milk off of the floor or
anything of that sort. I guess it's all in a day's work as a mother of four
crazy boys...it will certainly make for an entertaining story at Judah's wedding
some day!
