A Penny For Thought

"If You had what you wanted why did you let it go?"

                                                                     -Unknown

Love hurts,and being a woman and having our emotions run so high does not help.We want love,a lot of us yearn for it,crave it,wish for it, and hope for it,and just when we think we've gotten it something always blocks our path.I don't believe that we want to much,I believe that we don't want enough,so many young sistas sit around and take the short end of the stick because it's going to make they're man happy,only when that doesn't work we try and try to find something else that will make them happy and make up for that disappointment that we think we put there. Why do we always feel like we have to give just to get?We give our love and wait for it to come back in the form of an "I love you too."We give our support and wait for an "I will always support you no matter what."We don't always get that.Don't get me wrong we ladies have our problems also,we are sometimes so worried about what we can get,what we deserve, and what we are supposed to have.When someone said that we deserved,and said that we should have,they also meant that we should do something to get it and not just expect it to just be given to us.Ladies stop getting pregnant with that man's baby because it might be the only way for you to keep him,stop thinking that if you loose the weight it's going to keep him around because when you loose that weight and it's not for yourself,with that weight goes the person you used to be,so if you like who you are learn to love who you are and then that love will come to you when the time is right.You just have to wait and see what GOD has in store for you. How can you expect someone to respect you if you don't respect yourself?